Connecting with your network for job search is the most effective way to move forward. 

The DO'S and DON'TS" can be counter-intuitive. 

Don't: ask for jobs

Don't: push your resume

Don't: meet on the phone

Don't: appear needy or desperate

Don't: say "let me know if you hear of anything"

Do: ask for advice, information & referrals

Do: ask for help—be specific 

Do: offer help—be specific

Do: prepare

Do: follow up